cannot connect on private network

[populus]

I am a new subsonic user. I want to stream music from my pc to my new nexus 7. I can access subsonic from the host pc using firefox and play my music. But I can't connect to the subsonic server over my private network, using either another pc or the nexus 7. Canyousee.org sees the subsonic port on the host no problem. What I have done:

-installed subsonic on pc following installation instructions, then followed directions on http://monroeworld.com/android/subsonic/ for the following steps
-set port on console to 8081
-set up server name in network panel, got "responded successfully notification"
-Set up static IP address for the host using directions from portforward.com. confirmed ip address both using ipconfig in command line and on the router page
-set up port forwarding on the router using port 8081
-set windows firewall to allow subsonic (and subsonic elevated) through on private networks
-set up inbound rules on windows firewall to allow traffic to port 8081 on both tcp and udp
-uninstalled and reinstalled the latest versions of Java for 32 and 64 bit browsers
-restarted pc
-restarted router after 5 minutes powered down and uplugged
-tested demo server connection on the nexus, this test succeeded
-got "could not connect" errors from both a windows laptop and the nexus 7 when attempting the http://myname.subsonic.org address

The host is an HP pavilion running windows 7 64 bit with 8gb of ram
Nexus 7 is the 2013 16 gb version

I would welcome any suggestions on where to look for the problem or what to try next. Subsonic gets great reviews and I'd really like to try it!

[alphawave7]

On the N7, try http:// localserverIP:8081 (eg. http://192.168.0.7:8081) rather than .org addy. Any luck?

[populus]

Thank you alphawave, that did the trick. Music is now playing perfectly...