Subsonic connection issues, either no connection or partial

[madstan]

Having issues connecting to subsonic through web interface, subair and z-subsonic, tried ie8 all current updates and ie9 aswell no difference, had no issues connecting to server using 4.3 upgraded to 4.4 ( if it aint broke dont fix it right?!? ) after reading people were having no issues, now i cant connect and if i do its only partial screen middle and left pane are not visable with http 500 error, so i uninstalled all previous versions of java and flash and installed the newest stable releases, no change so i went back to subsonic 4.3 and i can get to login screen and acts like its gonna let me in and if i do get in i can see the whole screen but half the time the service wont stay started. I log i remotely to server and start it i can listen to a few songs or a few chapters of an audiobook and boom lost connection again tray icon is green and shows no errors.

Windows Server 2008 SP2 x64, using ie9 now but tried x86 & x64 ie8 first.
All drivers and codecs up to date, using k-lite kodec pack v7 full.
Newest java and flash dloaded straight from manufacturers websites.
Was working fine, changed no permissions added no new users or security.
Using dlink router DIR-655 manually added port 446, so disabled it in subsonic.
I can log in remotely all day with no issues so its not a connection/internet or network issue. im lost any help would be grately appreciated, if i forgot any thing please ask. Thanks again...

!!EDIT!!

LOL, I cant believe that i had the memory setting to low, i set it to 256 and loads up, log file said out of memory or something similar it wasnt able to load the playlist and coverart.. it was set for 100mb i set to 256 and now its steady using 165mb for 2 users logged in.

So far so good its been bout 30 mins, still testing but may have been the problem.